by admin on December 22, 2011

Persuasion Topics: Win Over Your Audience

The art of persuasion is all about getting people to change their minds about something or to convince them that your opinion is the right one. Often people may not realize how many times throughout your day you are faced with a persuasive topic and recognizing it and reacting accordingly can have huge benefits.

Persuasive topics often come in the form of advertisements such as print ads, television ads, infomercials, etc. All of these ads are asking you to believe in a certain idea or concept.  The important part of a seller’s action is their ability to set their intentions. So why do they want to persuade people in the first place and what do they hope to achieve?

These same persuasion techniques can now be applied in your own daily life as well, you see persuasion is a type of communication that aims to introduce change. Persuasion can also be applied in many different areas of your life.

Whatever your intentions are, whether you would like to get a raise in your career, make your yearly sales goals, convince a salesperson to give you thirty percent off a particular item, or just to have your choice of food for dinner, you can apply persuasion.

Once you have the focus of your intention, in other words what you hope to achieve you can start molding the persuasive component of your argument. Think about this: how can you possibly introduce a change without facing the resistance of your audience? You can’t. Here is another question to ask yourself. How will you state your point of view in order for the other person to understand your concept?

It is important to remember to understand the state of mind along with the emotional state of the person you are communicating with; doing this can be a huge advantage. People will usually act upon their emotions as emotions do play a major role in persuasion.  Once you can tap into your audience’s emotional mindset, they will rarely use their critical faculty. So try not to focus too much on just the facts and figures because your goal is to get your audience to accept you and trust you. When your audience accepts you and trusts you they will become comfortable with the ideas that you’re handing out.

Persuasion is not something that happens instantly but rather it is often subtle within the context of normal conversation. Whatever the topic, be sure and repeat your message to give your audience the time to process it. This will allow them to respond to you before a change can occur.  With a clear message, your target can and should fully understand your ideas.

It is also important to keep your cool which will help you stay in control when you are using persuasion within a conversation. You cannot allow your current mood to dictate how the conversation plays out.  Make sure that you are honest with the person or people you are talking with but avoid being vulnerable or overly sincere. Nervousness will often cause your audience to be uninterested and more likely to resist what you are saying so try and stay calm. Furthermore, aggressiveness will often trigger a person’s or group’s “fight or flight” response. You can reduce this by being patient and taking things slowly. Patience will allow you to get your point across with less resistance.

Most important to understand is that learning to use persuasion in every area of your life is a skill and just like anything else, in order to be really good at something, you need to practice, practice and practice some more. When you can successfully change the way a person feels about something then you will officially leave arguing in the past and You’ll become a more successful person because you can better get your ideas across to others.

 

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